His statement, "either you have a mental illness, or you just choose to be a bitch".
well.. you know you dont have a mental illness.... you MIGHT have a little work to be done in the second area, though
If you want counselling to work for both of you, it would probably help both getting there, and actually being there, if you acknowleged that second possibility to your H.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle