H is Having Affair after all - Part 2

[Evie]

LOL - Saffie, i think you are right. I can't get ow's face out of my mind when I think about H, her sauntering around me and smirking, like she knows so much about me and my life with H. Knowledge is power as they say.

You know i haven't taken offensive to your post - I trust your insight, i'm happy that you feel you can be honest with me and point out another way of looking at things.

I have worked on this reply (it's a little of everyone's input, but it summerises how i feel) - It's probably way too much, please say, add, comment:

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me, I appreciate your honesty. While some of the parts in the letter seem a little untrue to me I do understand/share your pain over where we are now. However, I believe that families can (have) overcome much bigger challenges than ours and heal to be stronger than before.

You say you're sorry for the circumstances that affect every couple with children - kids, jobs, finances, lack of time together. I feel that you didn't put any effort into trying to get me, your best friend back on board, you didn't give me the opportunity to sit down with you and discuss the problems/issues we were facing.

Whilst you were out finding the time to have 'fun and spontaneity', who was at home babysitting the boys, running a home, a business and working full time? - all the time wishing for more fun and spontaneity herself with her husband?

The comments you make about D2 are very hurtful (I know what she is like to live with) however, you took us all on at the time, more than willingly and now I feel as if you have a problem with it, it sounds to me like your using them as an excuse to not be able to work on the M.