Wow! OW sounds like a real piece of work. So is my H's OW. She actually showed up at his spousal maintenance hearing. Did she think this was a hot date or something? I'm sure the judge was not impressed by these two stupid arrogant a-holes sitting there in the courtroom.
Keep pampering yourself. That's what I do. I got a great haircut and a leg wax yesterday.
I also have a doggie who's getting on in years and am thinking of getting another one. Not sure about that yet because I may want to go off and have an adventure on my own. H and I traveled a lot together and it will be hard, but I have to make that hurdle.
I know this is awful for you, I'm still pretty sad too. I am also still in some denial and think he may come back someday. I know that is unrealistic because he has really, really moved on and bought a new home with OW. We're not even divorced yet!
The only thing that could possibly make a difference is that the financial strain may get to them and cause problems. On the other hand, they view me as the enemy and are probably huddled together against this storm(me). Nothing like adversity to bond two wildly in love people together.
