Hey Kris, I checked out "Not just friends" from the library this weekend. I have read parts of it, and you were right...it is very helpful. It sort of puts things into perspective and helps me once again realize that the way I am feeling is valid and not crazy.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08