I just wanted to say that I agree with LMG that you can watch these things if it's art of your grieving.
However, what you musn't do is to use these things as a way to try and get your H to re-evaluate his decision; it won't work and will drive him further away. The same goes for initiating any discussion about your feelings. I know it's tempting to do it, especially at the beginning, but this is when you must resist the urge the most- the stronger and more unavailable, centred and happy you seem now, the more attractive your H will find you, and the better your chances of busting this thing!
