shmagic,
Interesting line of thought. I do not claim to be the world's best lover, but I will say that she does have an orgasm every time that we take the time to have sex. I am very sure that she is not faking due to the fact that she will complain bitterly and get very frustrated if she does not. Oddly enough, she is less interested in foreplay. She does not kiss and will do precious little else. All foreplay is devoted to me arousing her, she does not touch me at all. I would be interested to hear opinions on that!
Her opinion on my sex drive and who I a supposed to have sex with falls right back to her belief that I am abnormal in my drives and that I should be satisfied with whatever comes my way. According to her, I am not under supplied.