It actually went better then I thought it would, it was very hard but h took it very well. I told H how what happened had, and does make me feel, he was very open and recptive to this, and said that he knew that he had hurt me, but did not really have a true understanding of how much he had hurt me. He also said that he has not really forgiven himself for what happened, but does think he wants to, as he feels that in not forgiveing himself it will keep him grounded, and make sure he remembers how lucky he is that I stayed with him. He also said he was amazed that I did stay, and that he is so lucky that I did. The only thing we didn't seem to get to is how he was feeling then...I think it is also important to address that to. But all in all went well, there was no ill feeling, and it did not create a rift, or anything like that!
It is amazing how much we have both changed from this, and going to retrouvaille.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
