obivousily what is good for the goose isn't good for the gander. I have been in your shoe's gone out and end up with hang over's. I am not telling you what to do or how to GAL, but hangovers are DB enemies. Go out have a good time but keep it to moderation. You will feel better and be less reactionary, and more action. This way if the wife wakes you, you will be ready to do what you have too, and not feel like crud.
Just some advice, I struggled with having too good of a time when I first starting going out. I took about 2 months but I figured it out it did not help at all. Even if she is drunked up, still keep it cool for you and the kids.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!