Turn the DVD off. And no more initiating R talks with your H. As you saw from his response, trying to remind him of how happy you were won't work- it'll push him further away.
Their feelings become buried- they won't find them again just like that- you need to become a beacon and remind him of the you he first fell in love with. What was she like? He may not realise it, but his feelings are in there....it's just going to take some time for him to rediscover them. You can help by being a fun, lighthearted, friendly person to be around.....
((((((Lea))))) Sorry you're having a bad day. but honestly, take teh DVD out and put it somewhere out of the way so you're not tempted to look at it/watch it.
Have you got any plans today? I think it'd be a good plan to go out and do something for yourself this afternoon!
