Thanks Lanzo. We're spending more time together with our S so that's good. I'm open to this and we can do it. Thanks for the welcome, it's nice to be here!!
-------- Me; 38 W; 34 1 4yr old S Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs Bomb; 15 June 2007 Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008