You hold no hope,come on look at what you just typed.H called you and thanked you and even talked about family stuff.He is trying,I don't want to sound mean but it is a choice to let go of our feelings and to forgive.ou did something nice and he thanked you that is part of a caring R on both sides.You have it so much better than most of us.I know it is tough because we always want more than we are getting.Stay cool you are there and H is there.