no need for a severe type of rattling or ultimatum...I'll just continue to be lovingly distant and wait and see I guess.
last night as I said h arrived home late again but the kids and I had taken off to friendlys so it didn't effect us much...it may however have effected him that we weren't here when he arrived (he did know we were going to friendlys I let him know that we were going because the wait from 5 on for him to come home gets to be too long for the kiddos he understood)
so anyway..we got home h went down to the playroom with the kiddos..son wanted to open his remote control truck...h started to put it together but was getting frustrated with sons excitement..I went down and took care of the truck and suggested they play with the football so they did..h heated up his own dinner (I had to tell him how as our microwave is in need of repair and isn't working) I then put dd to bed and then put myself on the couch...
h ate..took shower with son...and then came down to the couch...and well fell asleep...I watched some tv...cleaned the dishes...made his lunch (he had simply added some more pineapple to the bag and left it in the fridge (not much of a lunch) so I added some of the zuccini caserole I had made and a granola bar a soda and a crossaint...said to h the fairy came...and old joke with us about the ice tea..h would never make more would just leave just enough...so I'd say the ice tea fairy came...h laughed a sleepy laugh..eventually I went up to bed myself leaving him on the couch...around 3 am h came up..shortly after h came up son made a trip to the potty (we've just gotten rid of his night time use of pull ups this was night 2) it was cute to hear him russtle his way to the bathroom and then hear him piddle then put the hall light on and back to bed...
anyway..this morning shortly after 7 the phone rings...it's h...thank you for making my lunch...I know you were tired...it was a nice surprize to find it full...then h talks about hearing sons trip to the potty during the night...
we'll see what the day brings..but again I hold no hope for much change in things.
