Pregnant and heading for acceptance #2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

just a couple things.

First, hope your doing well. Good job on not texting right back!!! And Forest's idea on what to say was good... I think you should try it.

On the ring. I figured I would probably be against the mainstream. I at one point took all the pictures down, took off my ring, everything that reminded me of him. But then I really started thinking. I was doing these things because of my anger for him. I was angry at what he was making my life and my kids life to be and what he took away from us: our future. I started looking on him with compassion and pity, and I started giving my faith to God. I put those pictures back up and the ring back on because I made that vow to God and I was still M to him and I married for sickness and health and this was definitely a sickness. Sooooo, for me, the ring almost held a statement. That I still believed in our M, even though he did not. I was not holding on to the past, but instead having faith for the future. I really didn't know if God would restore my M or not, but I had faith that he would provide for me either way. So, while I understand the points made on why to take it off, I, of course, have to share my reasons for keeping it on. ultimately you get to make that choice, but if you do decide to keep it, don't feel like your holding on to something that's not there, or feel bad about wearing it.

NEXT, on the psychic thing. I really hesitate for you to go. I know that some people are really into it, but IMHO for many people it becomes a self prophesy. It's almost like getting a car. You start looking at this Cherokee jeep and buy it, you never much noticed them on the road before, but then all the sudden you see them everywhere. When people tell you what's going to happen, it's almost as if we look and expect it. When we do this, we are self prophesying and these things start to come true; because we are subconsciously searching for it. Instead though, WE get to choose our life, and no one can tell us how we will choose it. We need to start choosing our life based on a positive outlook....

I would continue, but sometimes my brain gets stuck in thought and I don't know how to relay the information in there out in words! haha. plus, my H needs my help and he made me forget what I wanted to say.


I know some people do the psychic for fun too, but this is MHO, and I think it can be dangerous at times.

hope your having a good evening B. keep up the good work.