Quote: so maybe a good old fashion list would work for H.
thanks for the idea but h is from the "no matter what I do it's just not enough" school of thought currently...and therefore giving him a written list (since he's just not hearing the verbal one) would simply further tell him that he's just not good enough..
what a pickle I find myself in..
I am not good enough for him that he would MAKE the time for me...
and H is not good enough for me becuase I want him to make the time and he does (or can) NOT...
oh well...
I took off with the kiddos and went to friendlys for dinner...then got son a haircut..(they are in the same mall and upon seeing his haircut man on the way in decided he wanted a cut) so we arived home after h...how much after I don't know as it apeard that h hadn't been in the house yet and it was already past 7...I can now hear them (the kids and h) in the playroom...h's patience is short...I'm getting tired of this life...