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so maybe a good old fashion list would work for H.



thanks for the idea but h is from the "no matter what I do it's just not enough" school of thought currently...and therefore giving him a written list (since he's just not hearing the verbal one) would simply further tell him that he's just not good enough..

what a pickle I find myself in..

I am not good enough for him that he would MAKE the time for me...

and H is not good enough for me becuase I want him to make the time and he does (or can) NOT...

oh well...

I took off with the kiddos and went to friendlys for dinner...then got son a haircut..(they are in the same mall and upon seeing his haircut man on the way in decided he wanted a cut) so we arived home after h...how much after I don't know as it apeard that h hadn't been in the house yet and it was already past 7...I can now hear them (the kids and h) in the playroom...h's patience is short...I'm getting tired of this life...

LL