Quote: Sorry to find you gloomy. Maybe you need to rattle your H?
nothing left to rattle him with...best I can do now is just go about my business find ways to fill my life with other things and hope that I don't drift to far away from h in the process of living my life.
Quote: I know of a similar situation where the H was working like a dog and the W was incredibly unhappy. The W gave an ultimatum, more family time or it's over. H thought long and hard, complied (got a less stressful job requiring less time), and now the M is on the mend. His choice!
and what soap opera would they be on??? no really I know people would make the right choice..but h would never consider even for a minute giving up his business I can't even get him to seriously consider moving his business closer to home. gee I wonder does that further my cause in that his business is more important to him than the kids and I?