My W lost it - started crying. I got some kleenex for her and changed the subject. She stayed teary for quite some time but finally relaxed again. Kept talking and there were more instances of her starting to cry, so I said I should probably get back to my gardening. I felt like hugging her and probably could have, but didn't try. She seems kind of messed up right now.
I need to just let her spin in her own world, and I feel pretty good that this encounter accomplished that - somewhat of a 180 for me not to act more concerned, try to comfort, etc. Now to do what GFI said - come up with a game plan for what I'm doing with my life! After all, at this point what else have I got?
lodo
Next time hug her.
Many marriages have been saved at that point.
Last edited by sgctxok; 05/05/0803:17 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
