That's funny that he said almost the same thing about wanting some time to himself.
I'm sure your book has better advice on trust that I can give. But do give it time. He needs to earn your trust but you also need to give him the benefit of the doubt.
Maybe in a month or two you might want to share some pieces of wisdom from your book and have a R talk about what he needs to do to earn back your trust. But for now, I think time is still your best friend. You are spending some good QT together and that can only be good for the R.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2