OK, what do you think of this. My therapist was saying that she has concerns that H is going to keep me in this "limbo" state for a LONG time. She is concerned that he will NEVER make a decision one way or the other, and I will have to be the one to eventually file.
You'll find there are a few of us on this forum who are in a similar situation. It has been nine months since the bomb with my W, and six months since we separated. We don't have legal separation paperwork in place, much less moved towards divorce. I know she is looking for an easy out with me filing, or taking that step, but unless something drastic happens I'm not going to do that.
I would not anticipate him making a decision. I would think they would rather just rip the Band-Aid off and get the separation/filing/etc done at once, instead of dragging it out.
