Help Me Act AS IF, Part 5

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LMG
Hi
Maybe try to avoid any R talks or S talks
last year my H dropped bomb in feb
talked about moving out but stayed for 4 months then one night he didnt come home and just said im staying at bills
Im still not sure if he really lives there

when your H brings up his plans maybe change subject
I tried to avoid all talks last year
nothing will help anyway..they will go if they can figure it out
we dont have to help them
if he wants to buy a chair for fR..i would let him
and
I would suggest no to renting out 3rd floor.. It wouldnt be appropriate and private or whatever you can say to discourage that
if he wants to move out, he should do it and figure it all out on his own
maybe you could just say i trust youll chose the right decision
or I know you have shared you are unhappy and nothing else
as for us LBS
it is so hard
GAL
stay busy
cry when no one is around
PMA practice
meditate yoga exercise pray
make a new GF
You seem strong and you will get thru it
there is always hope
The crises isnt about you or me
it is them
peace