OK, what do you think of this. My therapist was saying that she has concerns that H is going to keep me in this "limbo" state for a LONG time. She is concerned that he will NEVER make a decision one way or the other, and I will have to be the one to eventually file. There are definitely reasons to be concerned about this. H had wanted to separate for a LONG time, but always backed out of it. It wasn't until I finally told him that if he couldn't show me SOME emotion that maybe we should separate. He said he was relieved that I finally was the one to do it. It is like he doesn't want to be the one to pull the trigger. I am really concerned that we are going to stay like this forever!
