Still trying to be patient

[karen43]

So is she divorcing her husband too?
kat

I know at one time my H told me she was divorcing her H and my H would divorce me and then he wanted to live with her. That was right after they started their affair about 4 months ago. He still hasn't filed for divorce, so I don't know what's going on, and I don't really care to discuss it with him. I know she is married now, but I think she will probably divorce her H or he will divorce her since she told him about her affair and she and My H are still having an affair.

She has been divorced a few times already, so I wouldn't be surprised if she gets divorced another time (she's gotta be a little messed up I think b/w that, having an affair when she is married & has kids with a man that is married and has kids, and I've been told her kids have some psych problems also). I'm sure she is also pressuring my H to divorce me which I'm not sure is good or bad! Karen