Hi Let Go....welcome to divorcebusting.com. Have you read SexStarvedWife?
Like Strong, I don't think the labels are all that useful, because I think they are usually relative to where you are in the relationship. I am wondering if your H has given you any explanations or reasons for his feelings. What was going on immediately before the situation changed?
Were there any major body or lifestyle changes?
What other things have you tried to change the situation?
I also believe you can turn this around. sg
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001