The anger your daughter is expressing right now is extreamly normal.Your going to have to set your feeling aside right now.It is her way of seperating her childhood bond with you.And trying to find her adult bond with you.Sometimes the bond between a mother and daughter is so strong that the child will have mixed feeling about moving.she is afraid to leave you.But feels it is the right thing for her at this moment.Remember back to when you were a young woman did you feel this way towards your mother.Even if you never acted out your anger?
Believe it or not this is a good thing.You only have a few short years of being her childhood mother.But you could have up to four times that long to be her mother as an adult.
Like it or not she is an adult.I know i hate it.Mine all did this in one form or another.But now that they are out on their own we have a really good relationship.Also remember it is hard to two grown woman to live in a house together.
I know this is hard but I'm sure you will figure out your relationship with her.Just treat her like the adult she see's herself as.I know she is your baby.But she doesn't see it that way.I hated this when D21 went through this.But it is working out.We get along so much better now that we see each other when we want.
Later Friend Briget
The grass is always greener over the septic tank... Erma Bombeck
Treat hate with Love... DR. Martin Luther King
