Supermom and the Brighter Tomorrow

[JennyF]

It was a crazy weekend.

Last night was H's best friends 30th b-day party. My best friend was dreading going and meeting OW. It was pretty tense for her and there is still the issue of me not being invited that has added tension to this for all of our friends.

SO...at 2AM my best friend calls me (albeit a little tipsy!!)...first she apologizes for calling in the middle of the night...then she goes and on about how unbelievable to whole night was. First of all and BEST of all...OW is OLD!!! I knew she was old (she's 40 and H is 29)...but apparently she looks old. A 'hag' was how one friend described her!
Then she told that I was there even though I wasn't actually there. She said everyone was uncomfortable with the sitch, but epsecially when they found out I wasn't invited.
Apparently H did't hang out with her the whole night. To the point that people didn't even think he brought anyone for most of the night because he wasn't around her.
Then BF tells me that as she (best friend) was leaving...OW was acting stupid and hanging off the birthday boy as well as BF's husband! She said she was making an ass out of herself...hee hee hee.
Many people remarked about how bad H looked and apparently he was completely uncomfortable and it was obvious.
It's quite amazing to sit back and watch all this happening. I can just see the seeds of doubt being planted in his head as his new life begins to unfold and it's not all roses like he thought it would be.
I'm told that the hosts of the party regret the decision not to include me and are feeling really bad about it. I don't judget them for it...I know they are in an awkward position too...but it did hurt and it's nice to know they care enough to recognize that.

So then H came and got the kids this morning. MIL went to visit his new place (an hour away) and is bringing them home any minute now.
I think OW stayed over at MIL's house last night too...nice huh?
Anyway, I'm glad this weekend is over.
I got a lot done on my house this weekend...I should be ready for the real estate agent by Wed. Tomorrow I'm hoping to sign off on my papers with the lawyer and hopefully by the end of the week the ball is rolling for me to put an offer in on the house I want.
Unless H comes to his senses and decides he's made a big mistake and wants to come home before Friday! LOL!

At this point...nothing would surprise me!
J~