Why can't you show up where he is at if he has nothing to hide? I don't know your story....have you told him "no contact"?
My H had an issue with this too. Not now before. I did show up at the bar more than once if he was late and not answering his cell, because it would make me angry. He wouldn;t answer because he knew I was calling because he was past the time he said he was coming home. So I would just go down there and walk in. Never was he ever doing anything, other that being inconsiderate. Things I would change if I could go back.
Last edited by neecy22; 05/05/0812:07 AM.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009