Did you ever find out how long OW has been around or are you just going from when he told you? Just curious. kat
Well, H says he started his affair in December last year right after he asked me for a divorce & told me he didn't love me anymore (I think as a way to get rid of guilt he told me that and then started the PA that day probably), but really I think that is just when he started his PA.
By the way he was treating me for the past 18 months or so (always angry at me, yelling, calling me names, blaming me for everything like when he lost his keys, and gone much of the time) he started an EA with her (she was a coworker until about November) during that period. Their offices were right next to each other and I know they were texting a lot & sometimes calling each other on the phone before the PA. I know she complimented him a bit and he was enjoying that, and did think that was weird but I used to be so completely trusting back then!
He told me one week after he started his affair that he loved her, and I don't think that really happens in 1 weeks time so I am pretty sure they had an EA first. The whole thing kind of makes me sick b/c they are both married with kids. Karen
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