"Warning: Having a bag packed and available may serve as a reminder and an excuse…making it easier for him to choose to leave. He may need to leave and perhaps such a thing would be for the best. But it may not be it should play out--him choosing to leave. "
This could be construed as an act of war as well. Don't do it.
You have received sooooooo much advice here. Whatever you do, it should be of YOUR design, YOUR style and YOUR conviction.... if it is to WORK.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
