It sounds like you are doing well with the GAL stuff, that is great. Your W sounds like she feels guilty about all of this, which I bet she does.

Enjoy your new place and finding out what you want for your life.

Thinking of you

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08