Ok, then you have to trust him. BUT, he is still texting. Has he told you he would stop contact?
He has told me he would "try". He told me that Tuesday night this week when he was shocked that I told he couldn't move back in if he was even still talking to her at work. So this reulted in him texting her 15 times the first day of trying anf 40 times the second and 3rd day. You see up until this month the phone bill just showed # of texts not to who. So trying means lying for my H. It was texts instead of calls.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009