Confused no longer - Give me the strength

[Snow White]

Now, you can check the cell bill whenever you want, etc. Correct? You have made a "no contact" deal with husband, right?

When H was still living at home when this first happened he agreed not to call her anymore but they worked together 44 hours a week. Then she was transferred and he was contacting her again, not 200 times like the month I discovered but 38 in a month. When I confronted him he said he didn;t see him stopping talking to her because she was his friend. I called this a deal breaker then didn;t back it up, a month later I got the bill and he hadn't contacted her(other than at her work number) which was a lot of progress. However, after a nasty scene the night of his birthday I asked him to leave and told his parent the whole story, he was home after one night and then picked a fight and decided to move out to clear his head a week later, the phone bill came in there were no calls to her until the day that I told his parents and the the calls and the texting started up again. More so following the night her left our house.