Originally Posted By: whatdidido
Hmmmmm....he does NOT like not knowing where you were........he was getting jealous.............this is good....methinks he is liking his cake and eating it too. I am saying this, but I haven't read any of the other threads.

Have you every checked on him being at his "friend's house" when he says? Is that the deal breaker?


I have been trying not to check, for my own sanity. I think you are right, cake eating has been mentioned many time by many of the experts on here. I drove by once and saw his car. I have driven by OW's house numerous times and never seen it, she has a garage, she will be evicted if he is living there. One reason that points to him not staying there is that last Sunday morning he texted her about 20 times before he came here to spend the day, that would be odd if they were in the same house. There are things I could do to find out for sure, like go right to the apartment he is supposed to be staying at and ask the guy, but if he is staying there, it will cause a lot of issues that I did that.


Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009