After 3 long years, H is home - II

[Snow White]

I actually wanted to comment on something in your last thread where your H stated that all the rest of the wives were ok with the H's being out at 4 am.

When we went to MC my H said that I was the only wife who tried to tell him when to come home or what he could do. All his friends could do what they wanted(not so but his statement).

He has/had 2 best friends, Pat and Bob. Bob does whatever he wants never with his wife, lost his home and lives in low income housing, Pat is married has a lot to show for it and does a lot with his wife. We all used to do things together but Bob would show up to all couples things alone. The three have been best friends since grade school.

Today H makes the oddest comment that Pat's wife has ruined his life because he can't do anything, he isn't allowed to go out or hang out with his friends. This is the same guy who said I was the only one of his wife's friends who told them what to do.

I looked at him, so Pat's life is ruined? Because he has a happy marriage and he isn't acting like he is still in highschool? I wonder where the brain washing is taking place?