I'm sorry you are going thru this too!!! Thank you for responding to me! I'm trying to think of myself too. I did go get a manicure & pedicure, it was great!! But I still can't help but think about him. Being spring, we worked in the yard together & set out tomatoes & flowers & just enjoyed being together. It's lonesome doing all that by myself now.
I think you are right, at least people with kids have someone there with them. I know it is hard on the kids too & they have to deal with the emotions of the kids. I have a step-S who is 21 now but when his Dad & I met he was 2 years old, we married when he was 5, I know it was hard on him but you are so right, it is very empty. My step-S told my H's SIL that he knows his dad is going thru MLC & he also said that his Dad doesn't even know this OW only via email & phone. So, he knows his Dad isn't doing right.
I at least have my dogs but one is almost 13 & is having some kidney failure, I just can't loose her right now. They have helped me a lot but I still dream about H & keep hoping that since H has moved in with OW that it might be the beginning of the end of the R, I sure hope so anyway. We were so much in love, I still can't believe this has happened!! And with her sending me the "thank you" for my H email that just shows what kind of person she really is, he doesn't like woman like her & especially someone that has slept with every Tom, Dick & Harry & who would run after a married man. He can't see that right now but I believe he will.
