CBK, glad you made it to Philly OK. I know you are hurting wondering how this could take place after 26 years. I feel for you, we are all in the same boat on this board, you are not alone.
Try to come up with your game plan of detaching, I know that will be difficult for you to do being in the same house, I'm sure others can chime in on how this works being in the same place.
Have fun on your trip, you deserve to let go and have a great time. Believe me, it will help your mind settle down.
