Quick note: W had a breakdown today, she feels she is getting now where in life, rat on a treadmill. I listened, and then boom she has found a place to stay and is moving out now.
WTF, excuse my language, I have all the kids and her here today, making the best of it, we are going to talk Monday night, she is going to fill me in on the details, says she cannot take care of me like I should, says I should have someone that loves me, I have to go now, will get back and post as soon as I can
I'm doing everything I can think of, trying to follow Gods will, forgivness, patience and love
AND ITS NOT WORKING
It's not working b/c it's not about you! It sounds like your wife is having classic MLC!!! And she's following from the script: saying stuff like "she cannot take care of me like I should, says I should have someone that loves me (my H said stuff like that and has stopped lately thank goodness)! Bleck! Save me from their love and generosity please!!! Yes, she's just thinking of you now. Not!!!
I've found myself DBing and GALing for myself and my kids and I'm leading a happy, peaceful life. If my H decides to join us again and be a part of our family, that's fine with me, but if he decides to be with the OW and her "monster children" from what I've heard , then I think I will be fine too, maybe even better off! I guess I've detached a little from where I was before which is probably healthier. Karen
Save me from their love and generosity please!!! Yes, she's just thinking of you now. Not!!! 
, then I think I will be fine too, maybe even better off! I guess I've detached a little from where I was before which is probably healthier. 