I am so sorry this is so hard for you! I think Ellie is right...there are several things here going on at once, and it is hitting you extra hard.
I think part of the empty nest pain is that she is your baby and the last to go. Would you feel the same way if Brandon was moving in with a girl? I also agree with what Karen said:
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the more you push, they will pull
I know that is so true.
And finally, I am wondering if part of her is in a hurry to "get out" because of the extra care for Ryan? I know he is her brother and you are used to her helping out, but it is a huge responsibility to saddle a kid with. Maybe if you "drop the rope" a little with her, she will feel more like helping on her own.
As far as the finances go, I think that is such an individual thing. Every family does it differently But I agree with Ellie the insurance is important. Of course in Canada it is probably much easier to cover than here, but in my situation the kids couldn't possibly afford insurance on their own. Luckily while they are in school they are covered under their Dad's plan.
SG
I think some pampering is in order for our Barbie!
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