I guess my question is-how do you know when its over? There are no children involved so when our house is sold that will be it. We do not have the same circle of friends, so unless one of us initiates contact, that will be it.
Your H will definitely initiate contact, but it'll be on his time frame as opposed to yours. Try not to have any expectations about how long it will take (I know it's super-hard)
It's only over when YOU decide it's over. So until you decide to call it a day, there's still a chance to turn this around.
Have you got DR? It's an important tool if you're DBing as it gives you your own toolkit for starting your DB plan. The boards are great, but DR is the foundation for them (and I'm not getting commission for saying that!). Sorry to keep asking. It's just that it's so important to read it, and so reassuring aswell. MWD has a great way with words. And sorry if you posted the answer and I missed it!
((((Lea))))
L.xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
