backslides are inevitable, don't get too upset. You were getting so many positives, but also so many mixed messages, no wonder you felt like clearing things up a little bit. Don't worry, MLCers have a very short memory and H sounds like he is very much in the fog still. He will be distant for a day or two, it's normal. Keep DBing your best Addie-way, stay calm and positive,and you will see the results.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08