ok i'm really lost now as what to do. been not doing any R talk at all with him. when he left this am he texted me immediately and said he was glad i invited him to go out last night, and that he missed doing that.

i don't know how to even start to talk to him about all of this without it being negative. we are on shaky ground as is and keep thinking talkin about R will make him run again. i did such a great job last night to show him again how fun i am.

i don't want to be like um we need to talk, we need to set some ground rules. i can totaly hear what he iS going to say. listen i don't want to move things quickly, lets take it slow and i will say don't u think having sex to make a baby is moving things quickly? and then we will be arguing and at a stand off.


Me 40 H 30
D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months
H walked out nov 1, 2009
Seperated ever since
filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10