Eve - it might be that your h cannot forgive himself right now, so he expects you to not forgive him. He may feel that he has crossed a line and there is no going back, but it is he that has decided this. You and he got together as you had an A with him, right? Maybe he believes an A is the end of an M.
Thinking on letter wording too ...
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.