Well lets see, where do I start, W had to come by the house before S7's practice as he left his bag in my trunk the night before because he rode with me when we went out to eat. I told her this is not what I wanted and we should hold off on the lawyers and see what happens over the next few months. She stated she was not going to wait, we have been S for 5 months and nothing is going to change so we need to go ahead and start the process. I told her if that is what you want then we will go full bore ahead then. She had mentioned the day before about goint to see my grandfather, I told her this would not be a good idea for her to be around my mother at this time. She of course didn't understand why. Maybe because you are trying to take me to the bank. Oh well, that was the conversation mid day. S10 had practice at night, I was able to make this practice and acted like nothing was wrong. I even acknowledged her and we joked about something S10 did. I helped with practice so there was not a lot of interaction with her.
Her comment about it has been 5 months and we need to start the process pretty much tells me she has no consideration about reconciling. She made the statement that we get along better now than we ever have, but of course you can't tell her this is the way our M could be because she doesn't want to hear that or want to believe it.
I am sitting here today filling out my financial statement for my L's. This is such bull crap. I can't believe it has gotten this far.
I agree. it is bull. I think our W's think the grass is greener buddy. I think there are two hard D**ks out there and both our W's have shoulders to lean on..to me there is no other explanation that I can come up with..they have people in their ears telling them to get the hell away from us..that's what I think anyway.
