((( Barb ))) I'm sorry you are sad about this, dont blame ya. We always want the BEST , better then best for our kids, and with you not being real sure about this guy I am sure its causing you some heartache.
Ellie has some great advice! She would of been moving out prolly sooner then later, so the sit w/ Ryan would be changing, and dont cut off insurance! but yes cut her off financially, you wanna play big girl, you play all the way
My parents were strict too, well my mom, good grief if I even mentioned moving in w/ a boy not marrying she would of fainted right over and disowned me,,,for a while lol I am the same, not crazy about the thought of the young kids moving in and all, when they really are not experienced in life matters, but I do know the more you push, they will pull
Let her make her mistakes, if this is a mistake and something tells me she'll be home before the year is over, she will learn a lot more from it then you just putting your foot down.
Dont cry Barb
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life