I hear ya about the final thing. It was a huge OUCH when H said last week "This would be over so much faster if we could figure out the house". Super OUCH.
In OW's respect, yes, H did his best to elimate the hurt. Truly he did. But I will admit I was devastated when he ended it, still wanted out, then starting 'talking' to other women.
Funny the more I mention D now, H shys away from it. I use the word, and he balks. I mention anything about our separate future, and he changes the subject.
