Cake eating or progress?

[MaxP]

Hi Trixi,

Good to 'see' you. Here's the 1 minute summary on my sitch / life!

Generally things are good. We are still working through separation issues - which basically boils down to me sorting out finances to buy my W out of the house. I haven't met her since the "it's over speech" last October, which is weird, but it makes things easier in some ways. Just when I think I'm doing great I have an off day or two, but I am certainly on the mend. Also mulling over whether to try to salvage a friendship from all this, since we appear to get on, or just walk away (at least for the foreseeable future). A lot depends I where I think I'm at.

Beyond the R talk I think I'm over medicated on my thyroid, since I am so tired all the time (you may relate to that). Work is good and my social life is suprisingly great. Also, I now have the option to live and work on the other side of the world should I want to go for it, so that's great too, but financially it will be tough to do and keep the house! My family support here is wonderful. As you can see, there's lots still to think about ...

Glad to hear that there are positive signs in your sitch and that your holiday was so much fun. How's life for you day-to-day wise? Do you feel good or is life too 'on hold'?

Sorry I dropped off the face of the earth for a couple of months. I figured I needed a break from feeling like I could save my M, since that is not going to happen.

Regards,

Max