thats so hard, 1 ow is bad enough, but dating others!! wow, you are strong also..do you remember what my friend posted to me about unconditional love? I cant find it right now, but it applies to you too. At least your h could see how destructive that ow was. He sounds like he has respect for you and that i'm told is part of love.

Thank you for the letter advice. I didnt want to mention the d word, if thats what he wants then he needs to do the work. Actually a week ago he mentioned it and i said then it wasn't what i wanted and he said 'ok, we'll go for a 2 yr seperation then'. Some things he says, he sounds so final about. A friend also told me he was planning a future with her. The i get that email on friday.


P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07