This just keeps getting better....last night, my W said to me "Where have you been all my life?"
Apparently my changes are noticeable
We discussed summer vacations last night...looks like touring wine country is what we are going to do. I can't wait.
I just knew that we would be great if/when we reunited. I say honestly that this separation is the best thing her and I could have done for our marriage. Even though, when it was happening, she was adamant that it was NOT a "break" or a "time out". It was a separation, and she did not see me in her future (her exact words).
So, for others reading this - there is always hope. And if you can successfully navigate through the separation, and do the hard work required of you (self awareness, self improvement, no pressure on spouse, acceptance of your sitch), there is a chance that you will get another chance.
Keep up the good work everyone, and don't lose faith. DB your asses off, and be consistent.
I love the support I get here, and I hope I can give some back.
