I don't agree, married people should have nothing to hide from each other. You would not feel the need to snoop if she had not given you reason to. She is completely out of line here. Nothing you did is an excuse for her to treat you this way. I am tired of all the psycho-babble mumbo jumbo folks. Come on, lets have some self respect and hold adults accountable.
OK, I have put on my asbestos suit....flame away folks. I am just so tired of the the victims of infidelity being made to feel like the ones to blame. I am not speaking to anyone in particulars post. Just the overall tone that I get from time to time on this board. Kolle I feel for you man, I am there but there is no excuse for her behavior and you should not feel responsible. We all have our faults and short comings, but that is no excuse to be treated so poorly by the ones we are closest to.
