Wow, evie, you are amazing. So strong and focused. Can I channel you?
Yes, many people on here never get a full fledged apology (I haven't), and yes, I believe that letter of full of confusion. Honestly, I don't think he would have taken the time to put it all out there if he was truly done. He wouldn't see the need for it. But yes, we all have to face the facts, that even if they are 'sorry', realize what they are doing is a huge mistake...will that bring them home? In my case, I am pretty sure "no", but your H seems much more communicative.
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Lovingly distance validate positive affirmations
Yep Yep Yep. All of that, and taking care of yourself as well.