also lets not forget that while they were off having their 'fun' who was at home babysitting the kids? Its all relative
Many times in the last year, H has hinted that I was boring and never wanted to get out and have fun. Um, ok. Just like you, I was either working or home with the kids while H was out. Looking back now, I still wouldn't trade my time with the kids for anything. And if that makes me 'boring', so be it.
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LWB - what did you mean by 'resolved' - did you mean he is resolved to the sitch as it is now?
I guess I read the email as him trying to convince everyone (including himself) that he is doing the right thing. That he is resolving himself, there is no other choice, no turning back. Keep in mind, this is talk from an irrational, lost, confused person. He is trying to make sense of it all. The amount of guilt they have must be overwhelming. We are hurt, but we are not in charge of these messes. Honestly, I wouldn't want to be in charge. That letter in no terms means he is done, I don't believe any R on here is completely done.
