I had thought more of a letter. It does need to be brief. I'm just struggling on how to get it word perfect. It will end up as a dobson letter.
I wanted to say that i want fun and spontaneity as well, but having a full time job, running a business and raising kids plus lack of support hinders the spontaneity alot. also lets not forget that while they were off having their 'fun' who was at home babysitting the kids? Its all relative. I agree with the negativeness and i admit i moaned and was sarcastic, i have owned up to this previously and apologised. I have already said to h i was like because i felt he had 'checked' out of the M a long time ago and was not as supportive as he could have been. By his admission he works long and hard, but so do I.
Ow does not have a history/kids/business with H as i do.
Things have calmed down a lot since the finances have been sorted, i regret my behaviour from friday, major major backslide.
He mentioned 'too much anger', i know why i'm angry, but i don't know why h is?
LWB - what did you mean by 'resolved' - did you mean he is resolved to the sitch as it is now?
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07